NO COUNTRY CAN TRULY DEVELOP IF HAlF OF ITS POPULATION IS LEFT BEHIND

In the earliest known history of India around 200 BC , young women and men rejoiced a liberal concept of love . As our society developed and specially with the coming of colonial govt child marriage r baal vivaah became very prevalent . Just at the tender of 12 they were married off . Psychological , mental and physical development and maturity of women are important factors to be kept in mind while marrying . As soon as girl turns adult she is pressurized by her parents to marry , she does not get a chance to become independent adn stand on her own feet . Mahima a girl of 18 was married off during covid wave in 2020 , even though she aspired to be a doctor her parents found a perfect opportunity to marry her as they found a groom who himself was a laborer working in noida . In 2021 she got her first child , her dream to become a doctor got shattered . Now her dream is just a mirage in a humongous desert . When a woman has equal right to vote as man , has equal right to come in a contract as a man can , then why should a woman not have equals age for marriage which is 21 as man . The Ministry for Women and Child Development set up a team to investigate the relationship between the period of marriage with issues of nutrition, infant mortality rate and maternal mortality rate . The result suggested that the age of marriage be increased to 21 years . The bill launched by BJP led NDA govt is going to empower the women and give them an opportunity to work towards their goal and understand their rights . In 1978 Child Marriage Restraint Act was paased wherein the marriage of boys and girls became 21 and 18 respectively . Even though this act was implemented then too around 1 out 5 girls are married before even reaching the age of 18 which shows thats this bill wont be sufficient enough to bring a chand and empower women . young women not yet financially independent, who are unable to exercise their rights and freedoms while still under the yoke of familial and societal pressures . Even though this scheme has some drawbacks , this scheme would give a hope , a chance and an opportunity for young women to aspire and be ambitious to achieve their future goals and not just be sacrifice it all by compromising . The NDA government has good intention for launching the bill but it needs to focus on the implementation part which would eventually lead to women empowerment which is the final goal .

A story of every Woman from Humble background In India:

India is the  fastest growing economy.Invariably all the aspects of  India are taking a turn for good.The Indians are rising and have come a long way with each Indian possessing a mobile, a color TV and to some extent an electrical "Jugaad" if not a connection.
But the women of India from the humble background are still stuck in the same dirty mess.

Most of the Women of this group are ill treated by the men.The surprising part is that , the men are not the sole bread winners of the House . In fact in most of the houses they are the dependent's , left only to beat drink produce kids and be merry.The young girls are not safe and are taken for granted by men as a commodity thus misbehaved with.The girl Child at first is never welcome because dowry too contributes to a major part of these inhabitants.They are asked always to remain in a foot long veils in front of others.Hounded by superstitions they live in a world of misconceptions.
The life of these women are pitiable and lamentable.
What can be done?What measures should be taken?
No single effort would change the result.It has be joint effort from each of us.

If the NGO's and Government take up the cudgel to educate these set of women free of cost and at the same time support them with a subsistence allowance this might help them rise from dust.It will build confidence , Right to raise their concern,Right to educate their Kids,bring in awareness of birth Control and definitely make them capable.
The Government runs program off and on but with every grant by the Indian Governement it is plagued by a hidden scam.Thus it should be a selfless service.

SOCIAL DISTANCING : A NEW WORLD ORDER

What is life without being social We are Humans and we cannot live alone. This wave in 2020 March swept and posed a threat to the Human Mankind. There came the dreaded Corona. The shock of closure shut down and Lockdown broke the nation .Harrowing patient numbers ticking on the Media everywhere brought the life to standstill. We were all asked to stay put at our Houses. What stressful time watching media and disturbing news of Death all over with mishaps even at near and dear ones us made us all anxious and uncertain what lay next. Days and months passed and finally the day came when we started moving freely but the life was never the same. Masks frequent hand washes sanitizers and Social Distancing was the new norm. Long walks with friends , eating at restaurants spending time in parks ,a lot had changed. Believe me all shuddered to even press the lift button. Months rolled by spent thousands in challans over masks each learnt a new way of life. Travel to different places and summer holidays was bygone. Our rooms became our abode of joy and our kitchen was a tryst with new dishes . All turned chefs , making reels was the order of the day. Education Sector underwent a turn around. Online classes was here to stay. Govt too had no other choice but to hold examinations online or compromise on syllabus. Its been two years and now we have learnt new ways of existence.The good news is that the Pandemic is no longer fierce and we are prepared with all shots of vaccine.”Life never remains the same” , Just witnessed the biggest Change in the way of Existence .

Transgender bill 2019 - A regressive bill

The transgender Bill passed on the 5th August overlooked the recommendations made by various trans right activist and has come as an assault of Trans right rather than a protective measure the certification of Trans person gender has reduced to clinical proofs Indian brahminical state where medical interventions only markers of once trans identity does violating judgement prohibition of self affirmation of gender would lead to to non-consensual tripping down of Trans people in front of medical officer does violating rather than protecting the right places where trans bodies are hyper sexualized and dehumanized how can the government guarantee the survivor and living of Trans people with dignity without reservations or affirmative actions when operation of Trans person from there biological families has been noted this bill forces them to live in natal families for rehabilitation centres does snatching the right to choose the families despite protests this bill enforces lesser punishment against crime and atrocities perpetuated against trans than off sis gender people. I support activist like who have marks 5th August as gender justice murder Day "THIS BILL DOES NOT SEE GENDER AS A SPECTRUM BUT AS BINARY"

Female struggling life

Every house I see the story is the same that Female lead is struggling in each  Household.As a mother early morning rise along with preparation of Breakfast and household chores is every woman's must do's, while husband is still completing his sleep.
Managing husbands, kids, servants and outsiders is all in her work's kitty.Everybody's worry is her's wherein she loses her sleep and ponders on their problems becoming a sufferer of insomnia.
If working then her problems tantamount to more stress and poor health.
Come evening then again summing up the day with food homework,husbands and self's official problems etc.The day ends  with beginning of another one.
Whats new for her is just a gleam of a happiness on the faces of her near and dear ones.
A word of appreciations dawns magic on her.So never be a miser in appreciating the woman of your house.
This gives her all rest pleasure and happiness which she deserves.

Indian boys are treated with lots of pampering growing into aggressive males

India is a country which has ever since been a male dominated society.

The increasing difference in male female ratio has been an area of concern all through, still things dont change here.
As a male is born, people are overwhelmed with joy as though they have dug Gold.They make it true later as they demand hefty dowries from the bride during the boys marriage.

All through the upbringing of a male child he is made to feel a Lord incarnate.His tantrums are borne,never pushed him through household jiggles,going to Kitchen by him is a taboo,made to eat food befor all the ladies females and even his own sister at times.

What do you expect such males to be?
Later in personal life they become rude to women community.Take women for granted and ill treat them.Never help their better halves as they feel they are everything on which a house runs.The "Pati Parmeshwar-Bhala hai Bura hai jaisa bhi hai Mera Pati mera Devta hai" types. Their starts the gatha of women in trouble and maltreatment.
This upbring even shows up in professional life....Come what may .....A female boss is always a thorn of eye for many a subordinates and her capability is always questioned by these males.
Even on roads....You see a female driving past an egoistic male and he thrashes to race ahead of her.
Ah what a pity!!!
But the person responsible for such rash/Brash/Egoistic personalities are most of the time the female themselves either the mother's,Grandmother's aunts etc who give rise to all this....

Wake up! Women are the strongest part of any culture(Goddess Shakti,Mother Mary,Isis etc) in any part of the world.Give her due respect and encouragement and see the world change for betterment.